Yah, I guess you're right. Most dancing today is guys dancing beside [[not "with") other guys and girls dancing beside other girls. Have to believe it's not like that in the nightclubs but since I haven't been dancing in over 20 years, I'm not in position to say. With that being said, dancing is one of the purest forms of expression and I love watching Lindy Hop and big band dancing. That's an era that I unfortunately missed.